Coming Up for Air!


Finally….I’m coming up for air! SHOWTIME! was wildly successful! Thank you to everyone for making the time to come and see me and what’s new! Today is one of the very few days we have had that it is really beginning to feel like Fall/Winter 2017 is upon us!

I was so surprised when one of my clients appeared….someone I had not seen in a long time! It seems she has a new job….which is great news! It’s all good! The surprise was that she really got me going….she was confident that she would be able to convince me that it is ok that she “dress down” for her new position, because everyone else does!

Can you believe that!?!

Of course, I think you all know that my response was….No, It Isn’t!

We all should have a closet that is filled with clothes that we can wear now, and that we Want to Wear Now, to all the places we go. Our clothes need to be clean and stylish, and fit properly, and take us to the places we go to. It is NOT good enough to have a bunch of clothes that are old, are uncomfortable and make us feel old & stodgy. Maybe that is because of the fit, maybe it is because of the fabrication of the garment. Inexpensive clothes, purchased several years ago, (or more) will not serve you well. You need to have looks that are comfortable….great fabrics that take you to the grocery store, to the office, to the luncheon event, the teachers conference…..clothes that you can stay in to fix dinner & help with homework….have a drink with your husband….and eat dinner with your family! We are women that have a lot to do and a lot of places to go to each, and every day. We need Great Clothes that will take us to all those places…every day! We do Not need to wear clothes that don’t make us feel good! Life is way too short for that!

What we do not need, is tired old clothes that itch, make us get hot and sweaty, cranky and irritable! Clothes that no matter where we are going they are Not even comfortable enough to wear…all day long! And whatever you do….

Don’t Dress Down!

Please, people….do your self a favor….Dress Like You Mean It!! You will notice that people will pay more attention to you….and to what you say!

Dress Well. Wear Doncaster! You will be glad you did! For Pete’s Sake…don’t Dress Down!

Barbara

 

IT’S SHOWTIME!

We are together again….for SHOWTIME!

Doncaster Fall/Winter 2017

Woman’s Club of Wisconsin,

813 E. Kilbourn Ave, Milwaukee. Complimentary Valet Parking!

Wednesday  – Saturday, 9/26 – 9/30

This week! We are up and ready for YOU!

Come see us….and what’s new!

And, remember….Dress Like You Are Going Somewhere Better Later!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

OK…It’s Time….

Doncaster Fall/Winter 2017 Collection

Time to leave pajama pants at home, And the flip flops at the beach.

It’s Time to stop wearing sneakers to work and sweatpants to the airport.

It’s Time to give up Lazy Dressing altogether.

Because It’s Time to Look Fabulous Again!

Let’s show each other a little more respect.

Let’s put Saturday Night effort Into Sunday afternoon.

Let’s remember, You get what you Dress For.

So, Let’s Get Dressed!

(NYTimes)

Are you worried about what you will wear when you decide to Get Dressed!?! Come see me at SHOWTIME!

I’m sure we can find you a Great New Look! So, come see me!

Doncaster Fall/Winter 2017 Collection

@Woman’s Club of Wisconsin, 813 E. Kilbourn Ave., Milwaukee 414-276-5170

@Home, 9/21-23   By Appointment!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I’ve been thinking….

I recently had a conversation with a woman about her clothes…what she likes and what she hates!

It seems that one thing she hates is short sleeves. Sleeves that stop anywhere above her elbow/forearm it would seem. She even got stuck on what kind of finishing the sleeve has!! I can’t stop thinking about this conversation! Most women, any size, resist wearing sleeveless looks, for a variety of reasons. Personally I believe that if you occasionally bare your arms, maybe use a bit of self tanner (all year long!) most of us have arms that are ok. Maybe not perfect, but fine. I figure I am a big woman…why would I think that anybody would expect me to have thin arms?! Sometimes it is just too warm, for me, to wear a jacket…so I have to go sleeveless.

So I was wearing a short sleeve t-shirt the other day. I’ll admit that the sleeves were a little short, I know my friend would Never wear this t-shirt! Just then I was looking at a magazine and I noticed a really pretty white, lace, blouse and what I noticed was that I liked the sleeve, which was a little longer than I would ordinarily choose….for myself or for a client…at almost elbow length. But…I liked it. I think I would try it…and I know I would recommend it to a client! So it made me think…Why do we get so stuck on what we like and don’t like?

Then I saw something else I liked…

      Fashion….covering the problem doesn’t cure the problem, or make it go away.

Instead, try to solve the problem by accentuating the positive!

As a stylist, it is my job to encourage you to Embrace the Positive! Accentuate the Positive… after all! But, also, to try some new things! Because you just might like it…after all! Don’t stamp your foot and say NO! I Won’t Do That! I don’t like that! I Never wear Brown!! Be a little bit adventuresome….and try something new…at least consider something new. You might be really surprised! If you are having trouble finding some looks that are new for you and yet somehow intriguing….come see me! Showtime! is coming up! It’s the perfect time to try some new things!!

Be the star of your own life!

And…Curves are a good thing! Embrace them!

So, back to the sleeve situation….I guess there isn’t really a good or bad sleeve length. It really depends on how you see the sleeve situation…as it relates to you! But I do have to encourage you to try something new! You might be surprised…in a good way!!

The Doncaster Collection

Fall/Winter 2017

@HOME, 9/21-23

@WCW, 9/27-30

I hope to see YOU!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Something a Little Different!

It’s time to have a Mission to Transition our closets to prepare for Fall…for real! I decided this morning…it’s about that time…for me to transition my own closet to Fall! It’s time to clean out the closet….re examine the black pants…spruce up my look for Fall! I’m on it!

As I look over my closet (specifically, black pants!) I notice that some of those pants I have had for awhile now. They look really different from the pants I have bought recently. Hmmm…..they might not make the cut!?

Be particular! Be relentless! Don’t keep them just because at some point you Had to have them, so you bought them!

If you have trouble separating from your old clothes…think of it this way. Share them with people who don’t have any black pants…and need some! Some ideas for repurposing your old things?? Goodwill, your church, a charity in your area, maybe?? They will love to have them!! Your cast offs are likely to be Life Changing for Someone!

I want to take a minute and share just some of the great notes I have recently received! They motivated me to transition to Fall, maybe they will help you to adopt the Mission to Transition!?!

…..I looked thru closets and found several black sweaters and a nice silk jersey turtleneck, so have black.  (I also cleaned out all my closets and feel just great and in control)😷. Thurs. I am devoting the day to trying on ALL my pants and eliminating any that don’t fit right.
I truely feel good.   MS

……Another great article!!!  I am in the midst of cleaning out my closet.  You should see the pile of dresses, etc. and yes, multiple pairs of black pants that are going to Goodwill!  You inspired me to purge my closet of things I won’t wear again, haven’t worn in years, don’t fit right, slightly out of style, “what was I thinking when I bought this”, and I could go on and on.  Most importantly, I need space for my new things which I love.
Have a nice week,…..BD

….I wore my new dress to the opening cocktail party at (the club) Saturday night.  It was such a treat to wear – so great looking and as comfortable as a bathrobe! I got many compliments, including one from a most attractive young woman who said she was taking note of the best looking dresses at the party and mine was in the top 10😀  Thank you Barbara!…..SU

The Doncaster Collection

Fall/Winter 2017

@HOME 9/21-23

@WCW 9/27-30

Save some time to come and see me and what’s new!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Universe was talking to me!

 

It happened to me last week.

I was trying to do everything!! At once!! To get caught up…and to get ahead!! And the week was speeding by! And everything seemed to be happening at once! And all of a sudden it was Thursday!! The week was almost over!

I was so upset!! All  night!! What should I wear!? To do all these different things I had scheduled!! This one is at the cleaners, this one needs to go to the cleaners!! Yikes!!! What to do!?!?! How will I do it all!?! I could wear this one….nope maybe that one…!?! And finally I fell asleep!

I got up on Friday morning bright and early. I showered, did my exercises and decided to quickly check my email before I got dressed…just to make sure I still had to Everything!

The first email I saw, was my client saying she didn’t need her new things today….it’s summer vacation!! Relax and come when you can! It’s no problem, I’m around! Hmmm……I thought. And the very next email I opened was from my good friend Meg Daly! She is a Personal Coach and always has valuable pearls of wisdom to share! Her advice to the Universe that day?? It was to ask the question….Are you making your life overly complicated!!?? Yes, I am!!! Oh No!!

So, I changed the date with my client. I went to the gym and my trainer. I came home and changed my clothes. Then I went to hostess (with an old friend and a new friend!) an important luncheon event. Then I came home, for a minute, and Harry and I went out to dinner with some friends! Phew it was a busy day! But I lived thru it!!       

And I lived thru it, well dressed!! Thank heavens for my Doncaster clothes! They take me to the places I go!! I went every where (accept to the trainer…and on some days I even go there!) dressed in Doncaster….LOVE the Miracle Pants!

The learning? Dress Well! You never know where your day will take you…and who you will meet. And…Stop…just for a minute…to listen to the Universe! There is every chance that some one , some where out there, is looking out for you, after all.

Today is a Good Day for a Good Day!

Enjoy it!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

Don’t Forget!

 

To wear your favorite Spring and Summer 2017 clothes!

It’s Time! Now!

No more saving them! If you do not wear your favorite things soon, you will miss the whole Spring Summer 2017 season altogether!

 

Like it or not….it is the middle of August…and it won’t be long until we start wanting to wear Fall! The Fall Doncaster Collection is beautiful!! There is lots to love! But you won’t be ready for new things, if you haven’t worn the new things you bought in the Spring!!

Wherever you bought them!

Barbara

Style … it’s a point of view!

Carefully picked garments will define who you are.

Make the time to choose your clothes, early in the season. That way you can wear them in good health…and wear them often! You get so much more for your money when you shop that way!

                            Always look your best!     Christie Brinkley

Make the time to define your style! You will be glad you did!

 

Barbara

They say….

Success Breeds Success!

Do you look like you know what you are talking about?!? When you talk about things that you love…and know about….do people believe what you say? I hope so! Harry went to a conference recently. When he got home I asked him how was the conference? He said Fine. I asked if he thought the woman speaking knew what she was talking about….he hesitated….so I asked again….did she inspire confidence? Did she look like she knew what she was talking about!?! Hmmm…..he said!

So, try it for yourself. Strive for Success …. because Success Breeds Success!

Unfortunately the opposite is also true. Lackluster Performance Breeds Lackluster Results.

I have the tools at my fingertips to help you take the first step.

Dress for Success!! It works!

See for yourself!

 

 

 

 

 

And, start thinking about a new lipstick for Fall!! They are gorgeous!

Ready or not…Here Comes Fall 2017!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wear It In Good Health….and Wear It Often!

This is a perfect example!

I wore my NEW dress from Fall 2017 the other day.

I loved it! Comfortable, New, Snazzy…all in all, GOOD. Until I looked at the picture!! As you can see…I neglected the lingerie keepers!!! Oh No!! Now I have a perfect reminder….a pic of what I shouldn’t do!! (Ugh!)

This is a perfect reason to wear our clothes often!! That way we can practice how we like them BEST. If we rarely wear our clothes we won’t have the chance to get the best use out of them…..and we won’t discover how we like them BEST!

Hopefully, next time I wear this dress I will look in the mirror before I walk out the door!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Please comment & share your thoughts about style & fashion!!

~ Barbara

bbd@bbdstyle.com

Comments always welcome!