Well, we are off again! This time overseas! There is every chance that I will come home with some Great stories to share!
As I am preparing for the trip I have a few pointers to share. What to take with you for the trip is always challenging…especially if it is a new to you location. But I would strongly suggest that you only pack what you really need! Plan to wear each garment at least a few times…in different ways. This time we are taking a touring trip! That means long hard days of sightseeing! The most important and obvious must have is a great pair of shoes! Or better yet, a few great pairs of shoes! Plan to take clothes that can be layered. When you leave the hotel in the morning and when you stop for lunch in the square you will want very different clothes I think! It’s important to plan to wear the same thing as much as possible because your schedule is just too grueling to add in decisions about What To Wear!? Keep those choices very simple and minimal.
I would also suggest that what you take on the trip is just those clothes that are tried and true! This probably isn’t the time to try new things….for the trip! Why? Because you don’t really know how they will perform for you until you break them in a bit. Tried and true basics are the best option…which does not mean the oldest and worst clothes in your closet either! Some Doncaster favorites include miracle pants of course! A great black and white suit….that can be separated! maybe 2 skirts & 3 pairs of pants….some favorite tops and a great strand of pearls!! An Voila! You will look like a milldam $$$.
If you are taking a big trip invest in the packing systems that are available out there. They will go along way in keeping your things under control, tidy and most important easy to locate early in the morning…when you are in a rush!! It is a little bit of money that is well worth the price!
And, for Pete’s Sake…Don’t forget the camera! Take as many pictures as you can that you will be able to share when you return home. Everyone will want to know all about your adventure!
Be creative, but not too much!! You want to be able to brush your teeth, wash your face, put on some lipstick and run out the door to the next thing! Enjoy your trip…and your friends new & old….because one is silver and the other is gold!
Get Up, Dress Up. Show Up.
And the rest will be history!
We have been traveling a lot this Fall!
We are visiting friends and family. We are going to new places and interesting, exciting cities even NYC on 9/11!! It was really something!
I work with New Yorkers and we have family, that are New Yorkers. You know it always amazes me. Everyone, all over the world was, and continues to be, in awe of the New Yorkers! They survived the worst attack on American soil ever and yet they stay there and stay busy and continue to look out for each other and do things like running Into Burning Buildings to help others survive the trauma and come out alive. And they keep on keeping on! It’s amazing to me. And the skyscrapers and the bridges ~ how did they build those? In the 18th century!? And the traffic!! How is it that any business is conducted at all? With everyone sitting in the middle of the street absolutely standing still stopped!
Then we went almost directly to Tucson with my Doncaster Presidents Circle Colleagues to the desert in August! I thought it was crazy!! But, you know what? I was wrong! It was a wonderful experience. The opposite of NYC, really, quiet & calm and introspective. My husband went zip lining!! It’s just like Sky Diving! OMG!!! While I enjoyed getting to know some other Doncaster ladies. It was so special! We even got a sneak peek at Spring 2016! It’s beautiful!
We finished that trip with a visit to Chicago to see some very close family friends that we don’t see enough of who were in town from California! Our good friend was in town as the Director of a new performance of The Rainmaker at the American Blues Theatre. It was wonderful! Just Wonderful! I was laughing, teary-eyed, and out right weeping by the end of the show. It was a special treat that The Rainmaker was nominated for a Jefferson Award!! How great is that!?
So how does all this relate to a Fashionista?? OMG!! Ladies, we have to try harder to be respectful, not only of others, but especially of ourselves … while we are out and about! Generally speaking, the general public is walking around out there looking Horrible! When we got home, I was telling my friends that there were men on the airplane dressed like they were going to go cut the grass! And their women, dressed like they were going to yoga class which of course we were not!! Please lets make a pledge to ourselves that we will at the least look in the mirror before we walk out the door in the morning wherever we are going! Let’s not dress for the gym, if we are going to work, going to the store, going to lunch with a friend, going to our children school going just about everywhere besides the gym!
Dress like you mean it! Wear Doncaster! It’s that easy!
Be Empowered! Dress Well! Wear Doncaster!
Do you have a power suit? Your power suit is that look that you just love to wear! That look that you know looks fine, takes you where you need to go,and you feel confident that people will believe what you tell them! Generally speaking, the women that I know, and call my friends and clients, are women that are very good at what they do, and really all they want is for people to consider them credible. If you look like you know what you are talking about…there is every chance your audience will believe what you say! It’s really that simple.
I have a new power suit for this season! I have worn it twice now, each time I had compliments all day long, and now I can’t wait to wear it! Not because I feel I have to wear a suit, but because I WANT to wear my NEW suit!
Maybe YOU need a new suit?
The Doncaster Collection for Fall/Winter 2015
September 23 – 25
Can’t wait to see YOU!
~ Barbara Drake
Check out bbdstyle.com (Something New!)
Do you have some favorite accessories? I hope the answer is Yes!
Sometimes, your accessories are the things that finish off your Power Suit. Sometimes your accessories ARE your power look! Think about it! Reply to us and tell us all about your favorites….and why or what, made them your favorites? When I was the absolutely brand new girl at Doncaster I was lucky enough to be #1 in the country! The woman that I reported to at the time awarded me with a sterling silver star…including a charm with my initials and the date. That is MY secret Power piece. When I am going somewhere important, meeting new people, doing something that is new to me, I make it a point to wear that charm. That is my reminder that I CAN do it! Think….I think I can, I think I can, I think I can. It’s my secret boost…nobody but me knows about my secret weapon, but when I am up there in a crowd, and I need it, it is my secret weapon…and it is there for me!
Next time you find yourself in an awkward situation ask the woman you are talking with to tell you the story about her ring, her necklace, her watch…you get the picture! There is every chance there is a great story that goes along with that favorite accessory of hers. Oddly interesting, each story in its own way, sentimental and powerful. She will have a story somewhat like mine…an anniversary present, a treasure from a Mom (or grandmother) long gone, a gift from someone important to you. You will learn a lot about your friend….probably a fond story that you will remember for a very long time!
They say….To Exercise is great!
But, I say….to accessorize is even better!
Try wearing one of the special pieces that you have been saving…and see if it doesn’t become your Power Piece! If it doesn’t…try another one until you find the thing that gives you your inner boost!
Sometimes your favorite accessory might be your lipstick or nail color! Try something NEW! This season that will be some shade of Bordeaux. Try it!
And, for some people the new favorite might be a new SHOE!! Walk on the wild side….try an animal print! Especially with a monochromatic look! How beautiful, and simple is THAT!?
Make it a point to try something new a ring/necklace/bracelet, it might be a new color, might be a new shoe … but try it! I bet you will be glad you did!
Compliments are empowering! And they are best when you give them away!
Think about it! Whether you are receiving them…or giving them….they make you feel good! Try it! If you are giving them, hand them out generously! You will be so glad that you did! When you notice a positive change, comment on it…compliment her! Even if it is something small….a new lipstick shade, a new nail color. The more you pass them out ….. the better you feel, and the better the people around you feel.
It’s the beginning of a new season….Here Comes Fall 2015! This is a great time to be adventurous! Animal print accessories….ruby red nails and lip color? Try it! You might like it! A new hairdo? A new purse!?
You have summer looks you haven’t even worn yet? Now is the time! Quick! Soon it will be too tempting to move into animal print and ruby red, for pete’s sake! So wear those fabulous summer looks while you can! But, you should be shopping for your favorite Fall looks while they are fresh and new looking on the racks in the stores!
Soon I will be embracing animal print and ruby red!! So for now….I’m wearing my favorite summer looks…just one more time!
And Remember….Wear it in good health…and wear it often!
I Have a Feeling! Do you know that feeling?
That feeling of … I think I can! I think I can! I think I can??? And then, when it is almost too much…
OMG … I Can … I did it!!!
They say a picture is worth a thousand words! Here it is! A visual, up close and personal of a woman that has been through the fight of her life. She is a Breast Cancer Survivor…and today….she is victorious!!! Here she is crossing the finish line of a triathlon that would cripple most of us! These women, and there are WAAAAY too many of them, that have fought this battle are brave … and strong … and smart. They work closely with their own physicians and teams of caregivers and their families and their friends. They have to in order to be victorious in their fight. But, when they succeed this is the feeling that all of their friends and families have, right along with them!
And, here is another one!
Hip hip hooray! To all my friends and family on all their accomplishments … big and small!
You Go Girls! Good Going!
Do you have a favorite outfit?
That’s YOUR power suit! If you don’t have one, we have to find you one!
I have a NEW suit, that I just got! And IT is my power suit! I love it! I have worn it twice now, and both times I received compliments all day long! That is always a good thing! But, remember, it is new and I have ONLY worn it twice. And already it is my go to look… and I can’t wait to wear it again.
So, what is it that makes your favorite outfit a power suit? I think there are a few pieces to that answer. The most important thing is the feeling that you have when you wear it! Do you feel pulled together and confident? Think of it this way, if you want people to believe you to be credible, you really want to LOOK credible! We don’t get a second chance to make a first impression. So the very first impression has to be a good one to get GREAT results! One of the things that will make you LOVE your look is when you do wear it, do you receive compliments?? Just random compliments. You want your look….that everyday look that only you own, to be your own personal branding. You want people, friends and clients, to believe what you tell them is true. And to do that well, you need to look like a woman that knows what she is talking about!
Your look doesn’t have to be fussy. Quite the opposite, in fact! Your look needs to be consistent. Look nice….not FABULOUS!! It’s hard to be consistently fabulous! But it isn’t too hard to be consistently well dressed. In the 21st century we are BUSY…and we have LONG days. We must have clothes that take us to the places we go…all day long…and we must look as good at 6pm as we did at 6am!
Clean hair, a great hair cut….well manicured nails…and for Pete’s Sake a great new lip color!
Repeat after me … Get Up. Dress Up. & Show Up!
And today will be a good day!
Here it is Labor Day weekend already! Where has the summer gone??
Usually we are heading away up to the lake for the weekend, but this year we are staying home! Yeah! I am going to take the time to change over my closet and get ready for Fall 2015…in earnest! Right after I sit back and smell the roses! It’s hard for me! But I really want to enjoy what I have, including a wonderful garden that we inherited with our house. It’s the perfect opportunity for that!
I have the clothes, mostly anyway. After all, my motto is buy early & wear it often … & wear it in good health! I try really hard to take my own advice! When we make the time and opportunity to wear our clothes HARD when it comes time to buy new things, we are ready to make some changes. That’s a good thing! That’s what keeps us on the edge & current. It is so easy to get into the habit of wearing the same old, same old … all the time. Make it a point to wear ALL the clothes you have in your closet, not just a few of them, all the time. You will find that you will put together interesting looks that actually look great together, maybe not what you expected early in the season, when you bought them. But you will get much more wear out of ALL your clothes.
So, speaking of much more wear … when was the last time you refreshed your lingerie?
I know, I know! But take my advice … a great time to change up your underwear drawer is when a new season begins … in earnest! Your new underwear, even if it is the same brand as last year, or for many years will do wonders for your new look! The fabrics feel better next to your skin. They fit better. They make your new Fall clothes fit better and therefore look better! All in all, everything is better when you spring for new underwear! Why not take the opportunity to try something new? Maybe a new brand? Maybe a new fashion color for the season? Be adventurous! It’s a good thing!
Wear it in good health … & wear it often!
I can’t promise I can make you look thin! But, I can promise I can make you look great!!!!
People tell me that all the time! Alright, alright….I’ll come see you….but can you promise to make me look thin!!?? No, of course not! But….I can promise to introduce you to looks that make you look stylish, modern….and generally, GREAT! I want to introduce you to some new looks, that you can embrace…and in no time at all they will be your go-to POWER LOOKS! How do I know that? I hear it all the time! It isn’t about how old you are….or aren’t! It isn’t about what size you wear. When you look stylish, you will rock your world! And, that is the best feeling there is!
It’s really important that we don’t get stuck wearing the same old, same old all the time. That is the thing that makes us look old and tired. When we wear new looks, we have to push ourselves a little bit. We have to stretch ourselves to try a little bit harder, to look a little bit better….to embrace something a little bit edgier! You want to look like YOU, but better! Stay within your comfort zone, but try something that is NEW….TO YOU! Stay tuned to BBDStyle.com for tips on what’s new and edgy and current! You will be so glad that you did!
For Fall you MUST have some Ruby Red in your closet! Whether it is a whole look, or whether it is a single garment that will punch up the closet for Fall 2015. Swipe your lips with a rich ruby red color….that is the thing that will make everything look new! And that is always a good thing!
Another must have this season is a CAPE! Any color will do, but it is the must have accessory for Fall 2015. Keep your eyes open…you will notice them everywhere! Try it! You might like it! Look at these ladies….look at how great they look. Now picture this….what if they were wearing a cardigan!?! A cardigan that is hip length!!?! We all have at least one in our closet!! Yikes!
A cape is a great way to take those favorite leggings (at least some trim leg pants) all over town, all day long!
Make it a point….Try something new….And then, remember…
Wear it in Good Health, … And Wear it Often!
Check out this wonderful Behind the Scenes video of the Winter 2015 photoshoot!
AND, ooohh … somebody else recently had a photoshoot too ~ stay tuned to find out who! 😉
Have fun getting acquainted with these new looks!