One thing at a time….

I think by now most of you know that I’ve been sick for a while now!!! UGH!!! As soon as I think I’m getting better something else happens….darn it! But, I think slowly, I am getting better!

Brighten Your Day with your favorite lipstick

I got my nails done yesterday….for the first time in 6 weeks! Oh dear…! And I have been reluctant to go and do it for a lot of reasons….including I’m not going anywhere, I’m not seeing anyone, I don’t feel good, they are really fine “au naturelle”….so why not just save the money? But, somehow, I was convinced that beautiful fingers would make me feel better.  So I said OK…we’ll see. And you know what?             New nails = a new me! It worked! I felt better immediately! So this morning I got up and dressed up in last years favorites…including PINK! A lot of pattern and a lot of Pink! And I am feeling better.

I am so saddened by the sudden death of Kate Spade. I am so sorry to hear of her struggles. I am a big fan of hers…..and have been for years! She was a young woman with a great idea, to design & create a purse that actually carried all the things women need to have at hand on a regular basis. She was able to pursue and develop her brand and she created an empire all her own. Such a wonderful role model for all of our young people today. Her vision, it turned out was more than purses….it turned out to be a brand that included, fashion, home goods, shoes…she left her mark on all facets of our life today. Life is hard….for everybody….on a lot of days. Everybody knows that. But I believe that for some people, some times, it is  just too hard. And for those people we just need to give them peace and grace. We need to trust that when they do the unthinkable they believe they are doing the right thing. Ultimately, it’s up to them…It’s not up to us.

I guess it just goes to show that Everyone Has Something……even, maybe especially, those women that appear to have it all.

Hence, we will vow to Get Up. Dress Up. and Show Up. Why? because we can….we will get a manicure/pedicure…and we will feel better… and we will become role models and mentors to the young women that are coming up behind us…one step at a time, one day at a time.

And don’t forget…..Lipstick!!

Barbara

 

 

 

 

 

5 Comments on “One thing at a time….

  1. Barbara, I love what you wrote, and its so meaningful when coming from such a genuine person like yourself.

    i hope you are feeling better everyday.

    Take care,

    Cathy Schepis
    Xoxo

    • Hi Cathy: So. nice to hear from you! It’s been way too long!! We haven’t been to NYC in ages….but the next time wee are there I hope that we can connect….even if just for a bit! Hope all is well with you….I’m happy that I think I’m getting better. I have one more surgery to get thru….then I should be good. I can’t wait to get this journey behind us!

  2. LOVE the dress?, blouse?! So good to see you smiling and beautiful.

  3. U know what I always say, Dear Barbara, “Change your lipstick, change your life!” Thinking of you and your brave and indomitable spirit. 😘

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